I don't respect my MOM and Have a Low opinion of Women?

It's just that I dont know the woman. She never talks to me. Shes also very lazy. All she does is sit around and eat herself to death.I keep telling her its an unhealthy lifestyle but she doesn't listen. Saddest part is she had so much potential, but drop out of college when she was my age and gave up in life. most of the women i met in college have been disappointments too. Will this change or are my standards too high???